They pride themselves on being tough, resilient "shore people".
But Superstorm Sandy has made even them wonder whether life can ever be the same again.
A small bay-front corner of Pleasantville, New Jersey, is where Sandy made its second touchdown on land.
Houses that have withstood a century of extreme weather were picked and smashed to pieces inland.
Mike and Tracey Rock returned to their home on East Edgewater Avenue to find it had been shifted off its foundations.
A house where Mike's grandmother had lived, where he had sat through countless hurricanes since childhood, will now have to be demolished.
"It is devastating. This is our past. We all grew up here. We'll rebuild but it won't be the same."
As they picked through the debris down the street, they found their front porch and paintings that had hung in their living room.
They found a half-finished bottle of wine but are still searching for their bath.
They joke that at least their view of the bay is better - the house that was in the way has disappeared altogether.
A cash register is seen among the debris in Sea Bright, New Jersey The owner of that house was picking around a demolished roof in a garden a hundred yards away, trying to find any signs of home.
The neighbourhood is criss-crossed by narrow waterways, all now full of bits of houses tossed around by Sandy.
Lisa Broomsmith's home was shattered by a houseboat which was ripped from its moorings and thrown inland.
The garage where her husband had carried on the family tradition of toy-making has gone.
She said: "Seeing the defeat in his face has been the hardest thing.
"But this is not going to defeat us, this one perfect storm."
Like many families here, the Broomsmiths must wait for assessors to decide what happens next to their battered home. They did not have insurance.
All are thankful to have survived a storm that has been so deadly in their state.
John Tansey says his home - maybe his life - was saved by his old brown Ford van which stopped a boat dock from smashing through his house.
With remarkable efficiency, the Egg Harbour authorities are collecting piles of debris as fast as residents can place them on the pavement.
The memories and the scars of Sandy will take much longer to remove.
Amsterdam coffee shops are to remain open to tourists
People wait in line to fill containers with fuel in Edison, New Jersey
John Paxton outside his storm damaged home in Atlantic City
A woman walks past storm damage in Atlantic City
The historic Rockaway boardwalk was destroyed
The Breezy Point fire razed dozens of homes
Residents in the flooded city of Hoboken
Flood-damaged food is removed from New York shops
Part of a home rests upside-down in Seaside Heights, New Jersey
The bill for Sandy could top $20bn
Darkness continued to envelope a large stretch of the Manhattan skyline
Flood water from Sandy surrounds homes in South Bethany, Delaware
Falling trees have proved particularly deadly
Some airports like this one in Washington DC virtually closed down
An explosion rocks a flooded New York power plant
CCTV captures the PATH station in Hoboken, N.J., as it is flooded.
Sea water floods the Ground Zero construction site.
The collapsed front wall of an apartment building in New York
The famous HMS Bounty was hit by 18ft waves
Sixteen people were on board the ship when it sank
The rescued crew were flown to Air Station Elizabeth City for treatment
A cache of weapons seized by rebel fighters
Key evacuation areas affecting New York City and adjoining areas
Sandbags have been used to thwart flooding in low-lying areas
Police officers monitor Times Square subway station
The projected storm track passes over New York
Small tsunami waves hit parts of Hawaii